Joseph Pagan

At 45, I'm young enough to be "hip" and old enough to be a grandfather!  I have four children, from 11 to 24, and two grandchildren, aged 1 and 3.  And I'm crazy about my wife!

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Struggling to help your teen?  Your teen self destructing?  Need help parenting your teen? Need your teen to talk to someone?  I'm your guy.

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Things not good with your partner?  Fighting a lot?  They won't grow for you ?  Is there infidelity?  Is it abusive?  Things can be different and I'll show you how.

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Struggling with your spiritual life?  Have you been abused spiritually?  Looking for purpose and direction?  Don't know what to do about your career?  I promise I have the answers.

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I self destructed myself as a teen...and young adult.  I was an absent father. My parents were self destructive.  I got to a better place...a much better place.  I learned, forgave myself, and forgave my parents.  I became the parent my kids deserve.

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I will not take anyone's side.  Even if you want me to, still I will not.  We all have contribution to our problems and contribution for the solution.  I'll make the hidden known to you.  You will have clarity.

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Since 2015, I have been a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing here in Kansas. I work with Families, Couples, Individuals, and Teens. I specialize in treating trauma, depression, and anxiety. For the last seven years I have worked with teens in Lawrence and at Free State High Schools.

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I can be reached directly by email at joseph@cfhtherapy.com